When I really want to engage in the process of empathy, it is necessary to forget my EGO and maintain a stance of unconditional positive regard, love and acceptance of the other. As a coach I can build ‘rapport’ with my client if I am able to maintain an attitude of refraining from judgment.
How much am I aware of how important is to make ’empty space’ to welcome my client?
How can I shift attention to my internal dialogue in order to move towards him and become a ‘mirror’?
How am I sure I mirroring himself and send back to my client his/her thoughts, desires, wishes and sources?
How clear is my soul to reflect his/her thoughts and potential?